What do u think is one of the biggest mistakes that women make when it comes to men??
The answer to this question has a part A and a part B. Part A is that women do not communicate their wants, desires, expectations, likes, and dislikes in an easily understandable and clear manner. Being so arcane is confusing to men and can make one confusing to oneself. And, because expectations are not clearly and concisely communicated, women end up suffering through unfulfilling relationships. She may have sex with a man for months and never be fulfilled because he has no idea what he is doing wrong. It is better to speak up. She may be taken for granted (from her point of view) for months but because she never clearly voiced her wants, the man may be unaware that she is unhappy. The list goes on. Not communicating in a clear voice will always lead to misunderstandings and failures to meet expectations, which is at the root of most failed relationships.
Part B is that many women, even if they do voice their expectations, do too little toward ensuring that those expectations are met. It is useless to tell a man what you want and then accept whatever he gives you. Many men deal with women who are convenient–women who are willing to fit nicely into the man’s life without causing any waves or demanding any changes. Convenience is good, but if you are too convenient, you risk being taken advantage of. Men are not so difficult to find that it is worth putting up with a man that you are not compatible with or one who is either uninterested or even disinterested in ensuring that you are happy.