If you’re with a girl and you get really turned on but you don’t get a sexual release what happens?
Absolutely nothing. There is no pain–except for the bruised ego of a man who wants to have sex with a woman who either will not give in to his advances or who has changed her mind. Do not fall prey to the predatory song of sorrows: “I have to have sex now, or I’ll be in pain! Don’t leave me like this.” Do not listen to such nonsense. In a short while, the erection will subside, and if “blue balls” were a real phenomenon, surely we men would keep that from happening on our own.